Healing, Growth & Transformation

THE PRINCIPLE OF BE, DO, HAVE

Be, Do, Have is a universal law that must be followed if one is to succeed in areas of personal and professional health and growth. Many individuals believe and say for example: If I had a new job, or a new relationship, or If I had more money, etc. then I would do this, and then I would become this or that. It never, never works, never. One must change the be part of themselves first for without changing what is underneath one’s skin(our be­ing), we will not take action, and thus we will not have what we want. How can we change the BE part of oneself? For starters, write out in a journal your personal and professional dreams by asking yourself this question.

If there were no rules, and I couldn’t fail, what is my dream for my personal and professional life. Write as many pages as you can because you can’t fail and there are no rules. It can be anyway you want it to be. The second part of the exercise is to write. Who would I need to be or become to have my dream. For example, maybe you would have to exercise more, talk faster, walk faster, confront people, whatever. YOU will know what they are. There may be one or twenty. Take you time in writing them out. Once you are finished, put your writings away for sev­eral days and then take them out again and make any changes. I now want you to rate on a scale of plus 10 to minus 10 how you would rate each of the items you listed that you would have to be or become. If you can get this far, you are on your way.

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